Flirting online can be easy but to cement a sugar relationship you will need to meet in person. In the sugar world, this is called a meet and greet. Meeting face-to-face can be nerve-wracking, especially if you are an introvert or don’t know what to expect. Here are our top tips on what to expect during a meet and greet with a potential sugar daddy.
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Meet and greets don’t have to be stressful. If you know what to expect, how POTs are likely to act and work up the confidence to discuss some key aspects of sugar dating, meet-and-greets can be fun!
First of all you need to do your best to exude confidence. Fake it until you make it!
When asked men frequently cite confidence as one of the sexiest traits in a woman.
Know what you want out of your sugar relationship even before you go on that meet and greet. Practice talking with men even if they are not sugar daddies or even potential dating partners. Get comfortable asking for what you want and saying no to things you don’t want.
Work on yourself so you feel happy and don’t need a partner to make you feel good.
Go through your closet and donate anything that doesn’t make you feel amazing in the mirror. Eat a balanced and healthy diet that makes you feel good. Set an exercise routine and stick to it, for those feel-good hormones. Discover what feels good sexually with your body and practice often. When you sit, use good posture and when you walk never let your crown fall.
No matter what your body type or how “pretty” you think you are, these steps will make you feel more confident and radiant.
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Most POTs will choose a coffee shop or bar for the meet and greet. These are good choices because they are public and it is easy for either the sugar baby or sugar daddy to make a clean break if the meet up goes south.
Some POTs prefer to jump right into a longer dinner or activity. While these settings may allow for more private conversations, if it is obviously not going well, it will be much harder for either side to leave.
When you are setting the meet and greet location, always keep it public.
When choosing what to wear consider the location of the meet and greet. You want to stand out but not awkwardly! It is better to dress up than look shabby.
The location your POT suggests can help you decide the type of sugar daddy he may be. Is this a spot a wealthy man would frequent or did he bring you to the McDonalds Cafe? Does he offer to help with transportation or choose a place that is easy for him but difficult for you to get to?
Note his behaviour and how he treats you now as this will reflect how he treats you in the relationship.
This meet up will determine if the sugar relationship will go forward for both partners.
Present yourself as clean, put-together and confident in your looks and style. Go for classic looks that mesh with your sugar persona. Men can be just as nervous at meet and greets and overdoing your style or presentation might put them off.
Men are very visual so dress to impress but don’t bring your full game face unless he’s taking you somewhere fancy. Meet and Greets are often quick and to the point so there is no need to spend hours preparing.
Imagine spending your valuable time, effort, and expensive makeup to sit in a coffee shop and be ghosted at the last minute or find out the POT who seemed so sweet online is genuinely revolting in person.
You should be freshly showered, smell pleasant, wear a cute outfit, rock an easy but put-together hair style, and use casual make-up if that is your thing.
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When you are evaluating your POT, don’t let flashy objects, boasting about his business deals, or his luxury car get in the way of your objectives. Remember those things are useless to you unless he is generous enough to share his lifestyle with you.
Those material things also don’t mean he has money in the bank to spoil you with. Maybe he borrowed them or they are bought with loans or provided by his company. Use this meet and greet to learn as much as you can about your POT to search for red flags that he is a salt daddy and not the real deal.
Note his appearance. He might not be (and likely won’t be) the man you swoon over in your vanilla life but does he present himself as you would expect a professional would? Does he dress well? Practice good hygiene? Present himself well through a haircut and clean nails. Worldwide wealthy men are likely to wear Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren, Hugo Boss, Burberry, and Giorgio Armani.
While wealthy men are busy and some could certainly use a women’s fashion sense, they also didn’t make it this far looking like trash. In the business world appearance is a 1st impression necessity. If they show up disheveled or in outright tacky clothes they are unlikely to have the lifestyle you are looking for. Even if they somehow do, will you be able to be seen in public with them? Be intimate with them? Yeah, thats what I thought.
Always remain civil and maintain proper dating etiquette. Remember this situation is similar to a job interview so demonstrate your best side.
Maintain your manners. Don’t forget to thank him for making the time to meet with you.
Be interested in him. Ask questions and listen to his answers.
Leave your phone alone. One picture of your food might get a pass, but documenting your meet will be a big turn off to most sugar daddies. If they require discretion this could mean an automatic “no” on continuing with a sugar relationship.
Be sure you are comfortable giving and receiving complements. Say thank you and avoid self-depreciating talk.
Show him why you’re a good investment though the ease in which you converse, can be taken out, and your composure.
Make sure your POT also demonstrates respectful relationship traits. Note how he talks and treats you. You don’t have to dream of your next date but could you see yourself surviving a three hour dinner with him? Does he care to know anything about you or does the conversation focus on him? Does he want to make you comfortable and happy or does he complain you ordered an expensive option? Does he treat you like a gentleman or does he try to cop a feel?
This 1st impression is your POT on his best behaviour, how do you feel about that?
Both the sugar baby and sugar daddy should feel open to talking directly about the type of sugar arrangement they are looking for.
While women are generally taught to avoid discussing money, you should be candid and pleasant while describing exactly what you are looking for in a POT and a sugar arrangement.
Real sugar daddies will not be put off by discussing the arrangement and will often be the first to bring it up.
If they seem awkward, take that as a sign that they either are not really looking for a sugar relationship or that they are very new to the sugar bowl.
If they show resistance to discussion of the arrangement that is a big red flag.
If you can tell from this meeting that you and this POT just are not going to go further, end the meet and greet as soon as possible. If he is disrespectful, shows toxic behavior, or acts in a dangerous way exit immediately with any excuse. Inform others such as a server or bartender if you need help to walk away from a situation.
If he was sweet but the logistics or vibe just weren’t there, thank him for his time, make it clear that at this time you’ll both be happier with different arrangements (so that he knows this is not going forward), and leave pleasantly and professionally.
If you decide your POT would make a good sugar daddy and would like to continue to a sugar relationship, come to an arrangement, thank him for his time, and let him know you can’t wait for your first date.
End the meet with a handshake or, if you feel comfortable, a kiss on the cheek. This is not the first date, you don’t owe him anything. Meet-and-greets are normally platonic.
The next day, follow up with a phone call if possible. Texting should be a last resort. Taking the effort to call and hearing your voice can cement the arrangement.
Meet and greets don’t have to be stressful. The more you know about what to expect the smoother they can go. Take a deep breath, sit up, look him in the eye and be confident! You can get through this.
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