Sugar babies do not have rates, we are not selling anything. Sugar babies receive gifts usually in the form of a monthly allowance. Sugar allowances can run from a few hundred a month to thousands. The gift provided by a sugar daddy is agreed upon by both the sugar baby and sugar daddy, this is a mutually beneficial relationship after all. You may be thinking, well, how do I determine my sugar baby allowance? Here is our sugar baby allowance guide.
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What is a sugar baby allowance?
A sugar baby allowance is a gift made from the sugar daddy to the sugar baby.
It is often cash but may include material gifts and other financial incentives.
A sugar baby allowance is an investment in the life of a sugar baby that the sugar daddy provides in return for the investment of time and effort a baby puts into the sugar relationship.
What is the average allowance for a sugar baby?
The internet is probably not going to be too much help in deciding what sort of gift you would be comfortable receiving as this is subjective. It is possible to look at average sugar baby allowances but these are self-reported (often over stated) averages.
You will need to consider your location, income levels in your area, cost of living, and emotionally what feels right to you.
So, what is a reasonable sugar baby allowance? It is the amount a sugar baby feels appreciated by, provides for her needs and wants, and is reasonably affordable long-term by the sugar daddy.
So, how much do sugar babies make from sugar daddies?
According to Seeking.com the average sugar baby allowance is somewhere around $3000 per month. With sugar daddy allowances ranging from $1000 to $5000 per month. Larger allowances are not unheard of especially in higher cost-of-living areas but these often take time and the development of the relationship before they are offered.
If you and your daddy decide a pay-per-meet arrangement works better then average prices often range from $300 per date to over $1500.
Since every sugar relationship is unique there really is no “typical” sugar baby allowance. What feels right for each partner may depend on the time, energy, and personal preferences of each partner.
Sugar daddy income and allowance
Besides pure generosity, a POT’s income will have the greatest influence on the allowance he can offer.
Think about it. As much as you want $5000 a month, if the POT sipping wine across the table from you only earns $200,000 a year before taxes, this is unlikely to be realistic long-term. He may have business costs, child support, or high living expenses which eat away at his income.
In the beginning conversations you can ask your POT about their position as well as any dependents he provides for. “sooo, do you have kids?”
Using this information, research his income potential. This will give you a foundation to base your offer on.
What should a sugar baby ask for?
A sugar baby should assess what her budget requires. How much do you need for rent, food, utilities, tuition, transportation, and any savings goals you would like to meet. Why are you sugaring? What are your financial goals?
A sugar daddy allowance should cover or help you reach your goals in a way that you feel appreciated for the time and effort you put into your sugar relationship.
Don’t forget about discussing the commitment your POT would expect in the sugar relationship. The time, effort, and exclusivity of your relationship will affect what each potential partner will find fair.
How much should a sugar baby allowance be?
How much do you want? Consider your needs, wants, and goals and ask for it!
The worst that can be said is no and a true sugar daddy will be a gentleman about it. They may inform you that it is just out of their budget at this time and that is ok. If you would be ok meeting them somewhere in the middle ok if not be polite and move on.
Sugar daddy allowance negotiation
The talk about allowance can flow easily if both partners are comfortable discussing money and clear on their expectations. Sugar daddies are often business men and will appreciate clear communication.
The discussion can get awkward if the sugar baby is unclear on what they are looking for or the POT tries to negotiate down.
It is important to have some wiggle room in your offer but if what the sugar daddy can or is willing to offer is much lower then you would feel comfortable with you likely will both never be happy.
It is almost always worth moving on to the next POT without too much negotiation.
When should a sugar baby get a sugar daddy allowance?
You and your daddy will need to decide whether he will provide your sugar baby allowance per meet, by week, or per month.
If you are meeting on a per date basis you will want to receive the gift at the early part of your date and certainly before moving to intimacy.
If you and your daddy decide monthly works best for your arrangement style then the allowance can begin on the first date or a few dates in if you decide you want to get to know each other before jumping into anything, but again, always before intimacy.
The serious sugar daddies will tend not to play games. They will make you feel comfortable by providing your gift at the beginning so you can get to the good part of relaxing around one another.
How do you receive the allowance?
Cash is best. It takes away all suspicion between the partners and can’t be reversed, well at least not easily.
It goes without saying if they ask for your bank info they are a scam, RUN!
How much am I worth?
This is not the question to be focusing on.
As a human you deserve the world.
Beauty is subjective and one daddy’s ’10’ is another’s “6.” Relationships are not built on just looks or physical features over the long-run. Personality, mannerisms, genuine caring, and often ambition and effort are more likely to influence a strong sugar relationship.
Baby, your worth it. Share on XIdeal sugar allowance
The idea sugar allowance meets a baby’s needs, provides some wants, and fills you with satisfaction that your partner appreciates what you bring to the relationship.
The actual amount it takes to feel like this will likely be different in each sugar relationship you approach.
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What sugar baby tips do you have on allowance?
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There is a rule of thumb on allowance for long term arrangements. Start off with around the cost of a one bedroom apartment in the area. Sugar babies who are exceptional, like professional models or medical and law students can get more. Sugar babies who haven’t gone to college, are lacking in class, or who are older (particularly over 30) tend to get less. The amount can also go up with larger gifts like cars and full tuition as the relationship develops. A sugar baby should have her expectations in check when she starts out with a new relationship. If she becomes emotionally attached over time and he does too, then larger amounts really come into play.
The $3,000/month is probably about right for San Francisco or New York City, but Kansas City is more like $1,000. But then add to that the cost of the dates for the total value.
Great insight! Thanks Daddy