You have taken the time to write your perfect sugar baby profile but you are attracting salty daddies? Refine your sugar profile and delete these 4 phrases from your sugar baby profile.
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Your sugar baby profile screams “Spoil me”
This is the cliche sugar baby profile phrase. Make a sugar daddy account and you will see just how many babies as to be spoiled or “looking to enjoy the finer things in life.” It gets repetitive and boring when you are looking to stand out.
Asking to be spoiled shows just how unoriginal you are. Of course, the number one goal of most babies is to experience a lifestyle we can’t afford, there is no need to spell this out to sugar daddies.
Real sugar daddies will know exactly what you are looking for and will spoil you, whether or not you ask for it. They know what is expected in the lifestyle. If they don’t, they are likely inexperienced (are you ready to guide him?) or faking to see how little they can get away with offering (SALT!)
True sugar daddies will want someone exceptional in looks as well as personality. Many even focus on the latter. You don’t want to come across as boring or unoriginal.
You also don’t want to insult his intelligence. He likely didn’t get where he is today in the business world by involving with uncreative people. Try to go deeper. Describe exactly how you imagine your sugar relationship developing. How you will be, how he will act, where you like to go, what you will do together, and how it could impact your futures. Use storytelling and paint a complete picture. He just might be intreagued to fulfill this scenario.
Attract real sugar daddies by painting a picture of your future sugar relationship. Draw him in! @thedessertsite Share on X“I’m poor” is a feature of your sugar baby profile
Um hum, and? Sugar daddies know you need help or you likely wouldn’t be here. “I’m poor” screams no class and real sugar daddies will pass.
A successful sugar baby does not want to look desperate. Ever realize how money attracts money? That is the reason sugar babies, even when they don’t know how the rent will be paid next month, strive to look presentable and put together. You want to look like an investment, someone who could use some seed money for their startup in life, not a charity case.
Successful sugar babies focus on their goals and how sugaring can help them reach their goals. Being part of someone’s growth is invigorating and looks like a good investment to the sugar daddy.
“Show me your money”
Spelling out all you want, without including what your future sugar daddy will get out of the experience, comes across as entitled and selfish. A real sugar daddy will enjoy spoiling you but most people don’t enjoy surprising and spending their effort and money on spoiled people.
Do you have a niece, daughter, or friend who you love to buy presents for? Likely you find joy in spoiling them and experiencing the excitement and gratitude in their expressions. You would be off-put if they started to just expect presents or demand things from you. It is the same. Showing some gratitude, you are likely to be treated in double!
The act of giving brings longer time joy than receiving. Real sugar daddies are not just in the sugar relationship for the physical benefits but also to experience the ability to care for someone, cherish them, see them grow, and have a part in it. Giving is a natural part of a healthy relationship including a sugar relationship.
“Online only” sugar profile
The idea of “you can look but you can’t touch” in sugaring is unrealistic. Of course, there will be outliers that somehow keep a mutually beneficial relationship platonic. Maybe there are physical limitations. Maybe you met in person and really hit it off but have a difficult time meeting up again do to his hectic schedule or you going off to an internship across the country and he feels deeply about continuing to help you in your goals. These situations are highly unlikely and the prospective sugar baby should get used to the idea of some form of physical affection with their sponsor.
Honestly, how likely are you to stay in a “relationship” where you can’t hug, kiss, show affection, or have sex? If a sugar baby wouldn’t put up with that, why would we expect a sugar daddy to?
Online only, while a valid relationship option for some, is likely to be short term. Often it is more imaginary. The players don’t really know the other person and it presents its own danger of scams and difficulty in controlling privacy.
UPDATE during Social Distancing: While all of the above continues to make sugar dating complicated during social distancing, the world of dating in general is changing. We’ve all become more comfortable with getting our social interactions in a digital world and some sugar daddies, especially those in high risk groups, may be open to “online only” arrangements. It is important to talk openly and discuss expectations.
Use these 4 tips to refine your sugar profile so you can attract real sugar daddies who have an interest in helping you reach your goals. The more well-thought-out and articulate your profile, the less likely scammers and salt daddies are to try your patience. You will sound confident in your asks and boundaries without sounding spoiled, boring, and unrefined.
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What are your biggest sugar dating profile pet peeves?
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